Iam a girl. I believe that girls are gifted in different departments of life; from natural love to professional potential abilities in the outside world.
I also believe that we are considered strong and brave according to what we endure in life. Enduring biological changes and dealing with what happens around us in the world ( men can confirm my statement). We are Ladies and strong women… at least we should be!
We are not Ladies and strong women at birth, we become ones and it requires a lot of effort and work.
Girls today behave in very strange ways. They are desperate, give in easily, forget what they are worth and misbehave in so many ugly ways. They completely forget their values and identity as women –to- be. They really cheapen themselves.
Let me tell you something, we are the ones responsible for whatever guys think negatively of us, our actions and behaviors push them into thinking of us the way they do; that we are cheap,easy,dumb and do not pay attention to our own selves and values. As a reminder; men respect women who respect themselves.
Our mothers have always told us to watch out what we do because what we do determines who we are. Girl, that boy is cute, good to you and has the money you need but what’s the money to you? Will it buy you respect and love? I don’t think so.
You’re worth uncountable zillions of money you shouldn’t let what he owns first impress you. Many of them run after you, how do you act? Like a sport fishing girl or like one with strong personality? If you act like a girl to whom money means everything, you might get that money but will you be treated the way you deserve to?
You settle with every guy running after you, does that show them the way you respect yourself? The fact is you’ll be followed by a hundred more men if you want to but only once they’ve seen that you distinguish yourself and they will be following you for very different purposes here I mean decent purposes.
What I am trying to say here is that you are full of potential, your brain is there for you to be used, your character and personality to show how you really act and your actions to determine what kind of person people are dealing with. Become a Lady, let people who approach you respect you in such a way that they think twice before they let anything out of their mouth to you.
Set yourself standards, respect them and let them known, recognize and regain your value, respect yourself first if you want to get it in return. Be a Lady so that everyone shall recognize you on that note.
Let the one who’ll get you be with you because he fell in love with your personality, the person that you truly are and for the many decent things that you are able to offer instead of loving you for what he can easily get from you.
A Lady deserves true love, real respect from others and appreciation for the wonderful person she naturally is, for her worth, but most especially for how important she considers her special and precious self. So girls, become Ladies and let men treat you like one.
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